Oprah’s A to Z on Men

Oprah’s A to Z on Men..  for everyone

I found this at ms angel’s site and I think I need to repost this.  I love it, hahaha.  It might come handy for some crazy people (like me).  i do like the show and this advice might be essential to u too.

 Advice from Oprah about Men:

* If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

* If he doesn’t want you, nothing can make him stay. (Corrected by)
* Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour. (Ang itim ay itim at ang puti ay puti)                                  * Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache. (Ibig sabihin, lakasan ang pakiramdam)
* Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that’s not meant to be. (Wag kang orocan, maging babasagin kung kinakailangan)
* Slower is better. (Fools rush in, so dont be like a fool)
* Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy. (No comment)
* If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can’t “be friends”.  A friend wouldn’t mistreat a friend. 
* Don’t settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
* Don’t stay because you think “it will get better.” You’ll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
* The only person you can control in a relationship is you.     (Ibig sabihin, wag ka daw maging hitler              * Avoid men who’ve got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn’t marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
* Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
* Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
* If something bothers you, speak up. (Siguro kaya ang mga babae, mahilig sa arguments)
* Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. (Proven and tested)                                   * You cannot change a man’s behaviour. Change comes from within. (Wag ipilit, mahirap na masasaktan ka lang, ouch!)
* Don’t EVER make him feel he is more important than you are… even if he has more education or in a better job. (A little of self-dignity, one is unique from the other )
* Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less. (Tao lang yun, di naman xa si gu jun pyo na heir ng Shihnwa Corporation, lol)
* Never let a man define who you are.                                                                                                                 * Never borrow someone else’s man. If he cheated with you, he’ll cheat on you.
* A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
* All men are NOT dogs.
* You should not be the one doing all the bending… compromise is two way street.
* You need time to heal between relationships…
* There is nothing cute about baggage… deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
* You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you… a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals… look for someone complimentary… not supplementary. (Kaya nga ang themesong ko, I couldn’t ask for more * Dating is fun… even if he doesn’t turn out to be Mr. Right.
* Make him miss you sometimes… when a man always know where you are, and you’re always readily available to him – he takes it for granted.
* Never move into his mother’s house.
* Never co-sign for a man.
* Don’t fully commit to a man who doesn’t give you everything that you need.
* Keep him in your radar but get to know others.